A Plan for Graduating to Heaven
The intention for this document is
to serve as an advance guide to family members who survive me to be helped with
information useful in the conclusion of my life.
A pleasingly full and blessed life
has been the loving experience for Suzanne and me to share together in a most
excellence venue for living life. We
share with you the joy and blessing we feel for GodÕs Providence in our lives
and with the family members He has permitted us to have a part in shaping and enjoying.
With both of us cruising along in
our upper 70s, age-wise, it has seemed appropriate to develop known plans for
when each of us graduates to Heaven! In addition, a purpose of this document
is to enable our family members or friends who want to know what these expectations
are, and what each of you reading this might learn.
The north Texas DFW area has been
the focus of our living and of our Christian experiences, continuously since
1982. For me, it included my high school years in the 1950s as well. Being a fifth-generation
Texan, my sense of well-being here is comforting and Suzanne, my Georgia-born,
Mississippi-raised beautiful bride of my life has adapted very well as a fellow
Texan! It is for these reasons that our graduation plans, to the extent such
are feasible, are established here.
We expect to complete our earthly
lives here while living on our 10 acres of homeland in Aurora, Wise County,
Texas, a place called home since 1999! We expect our friends and loved ones to
celebrate our home-goings at worship services at our home church, Eagle Mountain
International Church, outside of Newark, Texas. Whoever in our family is making service
arrangements needs to contact the pastoral staff at our church (817-252-2900)
to see about what is available in the way of schedule, location on the campus,
and pastoral availability to conduct the service.
Our son, Taylor (214-522-5525) will
have access to my database to generate information about the graduation, the
service, etc. Categories of
relatives and friends on our personal databases are identified in advance to
whom Taylor can communicate digitally.
That will give options to make travel arrangements, if desired.
Our plan is to have cremated remains
interred at the
Greenwood Cemetery in Fort Worth, Texas. It is on the 200 acres of the northwest quadrant
of the intersection of University Boulevard and White Settlement Road. The
address is 3100 White Settlement Road, Fort Worth, TX 76107. The office telephone: (817) 336-0584. Arrangements
have been made and paid for those services. The cemetery space is #3 in the
Benediction Lot #39.
The decision for this location was
partly influenced by the fact that my great grandfather, James Alfred Simons,
along with 11 other of his family members and relatives, resides in the Lot #39
as well, so it is with a sense of being with family that we like this
selection.
For the benefit and information of
our immediate family
members, this document includes
photo images of each of these relativesÕ gravestones, along with a description
of each of their relationship to me.
As many of you know, my interests
have included pursuing genealogical information about my ancestors, and doing
much to tie together how our family has interfaced with and among people of
historical, governmental and spiritual roles in the cultures of the world. In
keeping with that interest, it is the plan to have my obituary in our local
newspapers, The Wise
County
Messenger, The Bridgeport Index, and The Chico Texan to include those parts
of my historical experiences that may be helpful to some inquiring researchers,
years after my living here among you. Prepayment has been made to allow about
25 columnar newspaper inches for this!
It also will include a URL citation
of the Autobiography being created to display most of the family, historical
and genealogical data that my research has gathered. It is free for the public
to access.
http://www.dasharpe.com/Autobiography.html
A benefit of cremation for
graduations is that oneÕs memorial services at the church may be scheduled to
be a time that is later than for a traditional burial, thus giving more friends
and family the option of deciding to attend, if travel is an element. This is
our way to encourage loved ones to gather, as it seems that weddings and
funerals are frequent occasions that draw family together. After all, itÕs the
last way to make an ash of oneÕs self!
Another family connection exists in
the area on SuzanneÕs side of the family. Her great grandfather, Dr. John
Thomas Taylor, 1864 Ð 1935, was a dentist who practiced in a downtown Fort Worth
office, and who resided immediately south of the Tarrant County Courthouse in
the business district. HeÕd married Ida Capatola Hicks Taylor in 1886.
SuzanneÕs great grandmother lived out her last years at her daughterÕs farm in
Macon, Noxubee County, Mississippi, ending in 1970. She was Mary Taylor
Boggess. Dr. Taylor is interred in the Mount Olivet Cemetery, a sister property
owned by the Greenwood Cemetery organization. It is located just to the east of
I-35W.
It is hoped that those interested in
reading this document will feel informed about the graduation services all of
us approach in life. Should you have any further questions or comments, please
feel free to inquire of me. I will do my best to provide a reply.
Yours in Christ,
Dwight Albert (D. A.) Sharpe
805 Derting Road East
Aurora, TX 76078-3712
817-504-6508
da@dasharpe.com
www.dasharpe.com